These interview prompts and questions about life to ask people when writing narratives explore childhood, youth, adult, and senior adult years. The prompts and questions are provided to help you look at life from as many angles as possible when writing narratives about yourself, your family, and others. Use these prompts and questions to help you
- Identify events and memories you can write about
- Organize and write your narrative and story
- Develop questions to ask other people about their life’s
- Organize, research and write stories about others
- Know what type of information to include in narratives and stories
- Identify memorabilia, artifacts, photos, documents to include in stories
- Develop ideas for journaling, story starters, poetry, memoirs, and more
Writing Prompts and Questions About Life Series
The questions about the life series include the following 28 articles that focus on specific or similar topics. Each article includes categories that explore the topic through life stages like childhood, teenage, youth, young adult, adult and senior adult years. Each category will introduce questions about the topic from many angles. Use the questions in interviews and when writing narratives about yourself, your family, and others. The topics and categories covered include:
About Life Series Topics. Click on the topic to be taken to the topic and category summary.
Questions About Life for Storytelling
You will note that many of the questions are open-ended questions. I believe open-ended questions are the best type of questions to ask others. Open-ended questions allow people to tell stories they want to share. An example of open-ended questions are:
- What did you like to do when you were a little girl?
- What did you do on your first date?
- Where do you like to go for a vacation?
- Who is your favorite author, and why?
- What some of your favorite experiences with your mom and dad?
When I interviewed my dad, I lived in a different state. I asked my dad if I could set up a series of telephone interviews that I could record. I chose to break up the interview into 10 60- to 90-minute sessions over six weeks. Each talk focused on a different time or topic of his life. At the end of each interview, I outlined what I wanted to cover in the following interview to give my dad time to ponder what stories he wanted to share. During our interviews, he shared many personal stories that I had never heard. We laughed, cried, and shared many precious and tender moments.
Did I ask my parents and others the questions exactly as they are listed? No. I used the questions to begin our discussion and explore the stories they wanted to share. I would encourage you to make these questions your own and personalize them with the person you are interviewing. When you are ready to conduct an interview, have the questions to get the information you desire. Family conversations can go in many directions. When possible, with the permission of the person you are interviewing, record the interview on audio or video.
About Life Series Articles and Categories
Find below a summary of each article associated with the About Life Series. Click on the article title or categories to be taken directly to the content.
Approach each topic from the point of view of the person/lives you are writing about. You don’t have to ask every question. Review the questions and determine which ones are most appropriate to ask. I would encourage you to modify and add questions as you desire.
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1. Personal Narrative Story Themes and Ideas
In the article, 275 Story Themes and Ideas for Writing Your Narrative, you will find suggestions of themes and topics to consider when writing a personal narrative. Areas covered include relationships, personal interests, events, memorable moments, holidays, vacations, and private thoughts. Categories include:
- Early Years
- School Years-Elementary School
- School Years-Jr. High School
- School Years-High School
- School Years-College/University/Trade School
- Marriage
- Family
- Parents
- Grandparents
- Siblings
- Spouses Parents
- Professional/Career
- Military and War
- Personal Experiences
- Request for Artifacts
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2. Individuals’ Life Story
In the article, 351 Questions to Ask Others About Their Life’s Story, the interview and writing prompt and questions about life focus on an individual’s life story. Areas covered include early years, school years, Marriage, Family, Parents and Grandparents, profession and career, military and war and personal experiences.
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3. Marriage and Divorce
In the article, 309 Questions About Marriage and Divorce to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover areas like meeting each other, dating, engagement, marriage, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The six categories included in the article are as follow:
- Marriage. Find 92 prompts and questions.
- Cohabitation/Living Together. Find 85 prompts and questions.
- Single Life. Find 24 prompts and questions.
- Divorce. Find 53 prompts and questions.
- Additional Marriages. Find 55 prompts and questions.
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4. Family Relationships
In the article, 352 Questions About Family Relationships to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover various family relationships from birth and adoption to parents and grandparents, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The thirteen categories included in the article are as follow:
- Birth of Children. Find 58 prompts and questions.
- Adoption of Children. Find 44 prompts and questions.
- Single Child. Find 16 prompts and questions.
- Siblings. Find 44 prompts and questions.
- Twins. Find 18 prompts and questions.
- Triplets. Find 14 prompts and questions.
- Step Brothers and Sisters. Find 14 prompts and questions.
- Half Brothers and Sisters. Find 9 prompts and questions.
- Adopted. Find 11 prompts and questions.
- Living with Family. Find 34 prompts and questions.
- Divorced Parents. Find 22 prompts and questions.
- Grandparents. Find 38prompts and questions.
- Pets in Family. Find 30 prompts and questions.
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5. Raising A Family
In the article, 171 Questions About Raising A Family to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover many aspects of family life such as events, values, traditions, religion, relationships, culture, finances, disappointments, struggles, happy moments, and more, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences.
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6. Physical Characteristics
In the article, 376 Questions About Physical Characteristics to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompt and questions about life cover physical features of your body such as hair, face, teeth, hearing. Questions explore decisions made to change, help, and improve the body, such as tattoos, plastic surgery, amputation, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The four categories included in the article are as follow:
- Youth Physical Characteristics (Age 0-18). Find 94 questions and prompts.
- Young Adult Physical Characteristics (Age 18-25). Find 94 questions and prompts.
- Adult Physical Characteristics (Age 25-65). Find 94 questions and prompts.
- Senior Adult Physical Characteristics (Age 65+). Find 94 questions and prompts.
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7. Personality Traits and Values
In the article, 155 Questions About Personality Traits to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover aspects of your personality traits and values, including your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The four categories included in the article are as follow:
- Childhood Personality Traits (Age 0-11). Find 31 questions and prompts.
- Teenager Personality Traits (Age 11-18). Find 31 questions and prompts.
- Young Adult Personality Traits (Age 18-25). Find 31 questions and prompts.
- Adult Personality Traits (Age 25-65). Find 31 questions and prompts.
- Senior Adult Personality Traits (Age 65+). Find 31 questions and prompts.
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8. Traditions and Customs
In the article, 501 Questions About Traditions to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover traditions you had as individuals, family, community, religion, culture, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The five categories included in the article are as follow:
- Childhood Traditions (Age 0-11). Find 101 prompts and questions.
- Teenager Traditions (Age 11-18). Find 100 prompts and questions.
- Young Adult Traditions (Age 18-25). Find 100 prompts and questions.
- Adult Traditions (Age 25-65). Find 100 prompts and questions.
- Senior Adult Traditions (Age 65+). Find 100 prompts and questions.
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9. Friendships
In the article, 409 Questions about Friendship to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover friendship, activities, communication, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The six categories included in the article are as follow:
- Childhood Friendships (Age 0-11). Find 47 prompts and questions.
- Teenager Friendships (Age 11-18). Find 66 prompts and questions.
- Dating and Relationships. Find 99 prompts and questions.
- Young Adult Friendships (Age 18-25). Find 66 prompts and questions.
- Adult Friendships (Age 25-65). Find 65 prompts and questions.
- Senior Adult Friendships (Age 65+). Find 66 prompts and questions.
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10. School Years
In the article, 460 Questions About School Years to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover school description, grades, teachers, activities, sports, band, dances, dates, nicknames, family, friends, pranks, discipline, groups, subjects, memorabilia, memories, fashion, accomplishments, graduation, future plans, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The ten categories included in the article are as follow:
- Preschool. Find 15 prompts and questions.
- Kindergarten. Find 37 prompts and questions.
- Elementary School. Find 41 prompts and questions.
- Jr. High School. Find 39 prompts and questions.
- High School. Find 125 prompts and questions
- Trade School. Find 21 prompts and questions.
- College / University. Find 87 prompts and questions.
- Advance Degree / Graduate School. Find 51 prompts and questions.
- Education Later in Life. Find 21 prompts and questions.
- High School Reunion. Find 23 prompts and questions.
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11. Entertainment and Culture
In the article, 318 Questions About Entertainment to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover culture, activities, hobbies, travel, sports, games, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The three categories included in the article are as follow:
- Youth Entertainment and Culture (Age 0-18). Find 106 prompts and questions.
- Adult Entertainment and Culture (Age 18-65). Find 106 prompts and questions.
- Senior Adult Entertainment and Culture (Age 65+). Find 106 prompts and questions.
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12. Employment
In the article, 524 Questions About Employment to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover changes in your career, jobs, unemployment, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The eight categories included in the article are as follow:
- Child Employment (Age 0-11). Find 11 prompts and questions.
- Teenager Employment (Age 11-18). Find 26 prompts and questions.
- Young Adult Employment (Age 18-25). Find 77 prompts and questions
- Adult Employment (Age 25-45). Find 98 prompts and questions.
- Adult Employment (Age 45-65). Find 142 prompts and questions.
- Working from Home. Find 19 prompts and questions.
- Owning A Business. Find 112 prompts and questions.
- Retirement. Find 99 prompts and questions.
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13. Moving and Hometown
In the article, 254 Questions about Moving to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover memories about your hometown, physical features and characteristics, neighborhood, favorite places. The moving questions cover your home, reasons behind the move, moving experience, new home and community, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The six categories included in the article are as follow:
- Hometown. Find 40 questions and prompts.
- Childhood Moving (Age 0-11). Find 41 questions and prompts.
- Teenager Moving (Age 11-18). Find 44 questions and prompts.
- Young Adult Moving (Age 18-25). Find 43 questions and prompts.
- Adult Moving (Age 25-65). Find 43 questions and prompts.
- Senior Adult Moving (Age 65+). Find 43 questions and prompts.
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14. Religion
In the article, 275 Questions About Religion to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover religious beliefs, practices, preferences, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The five categories included in the article are as follow:
- Childhood Religion (Age 0-11). Find 55 questions and prompts.
- Teenager Moving (Age 11-18). Find 44 questions and prompts.
- Young Adult Religion (Age 18-25). Find 55 questions and prompts.
- Adult Religion (Age 25-65). Find 55 questions and prompts.
- Senior Adult Religion (Age 65+). Find 55 questions and prompts.
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15. Personal Finances
In the article, 331 Questions About Personal Finances to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover personal finances that include earning, spending, saving, investing, donations and more, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The five categories included in the article are as follow:
- Youth Personal Finances (Age 0-18). Find 48 questions and prompts.
- Young Adult Personal Finances (Age 18-25). Find 87 questions and prompts.
- Adult Personal Finances (Age 25-65). Find 94 questions and prompts.
- Senior Adult Personal Finances (Age 65+). Find 102 questions and prompts.
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16. Medical History
In the article, 275 Questions About Medical History to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover all aspects of your health, disease and recovery, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The five categories included in the article are as follow:
- Childhood Medical History (Age 0-11). Find 31 questions and prompts.
- Teenager Medical History (Age 11-18). Find 55 questions and prompts.
- Young Adult Medical History (Age 18-25). Find 55 questions and prompts.
- Adult Medical History (Age 25-65). Find 55 questions and prompts.
- Senior Adult Medical History (Age 65+). Find 55 questions and prompts.
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17. Legal Matters
In the article, 314 Questions About Legal Matters to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover various legal actions like divorce, arrest, lawsuits, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The five categories included in the article are as follow:
- Youth Legal Matters (Age 0-18). Find 62 questions and prompts.
- Young Adult Legal Matters (Age 18-25). Fin84 questions and prompts.
- Adult Legal Matters (Age 25-65). Find 84 questions and prompts.
- Senior Adult Legal Matters (Age 65+). Find 84 questions and prompts.
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18. Immigration
In the article, 226 Questions About Immigration to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover reasons for immigration, homeland, immigration story, family, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The two categories included in the article are as follow:
- Individual Immigration. Find 90 questions and prompts.
- Heritage and Immigration. Find 136 questions and prompts.
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19. Individual Lifetime
Overview In the article, 105 Questions About Individual Lifetime to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover various highlights of a person’s life, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences.
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20. Death of Individual
In the article, 63 Questions About Death of Individual to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover various aspects and memories about the person how has died, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences.
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21. Obituary
In the article, 53 Questions to Ask When Writing an Obituary, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover various aspects and memories about the person, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences.
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22. Historical Events
In the article, 264 Questions about Historical Events to Ask People When Writing Narratives, the interview and writing prompts and questions about historical events cover personal, family and external events such as natural disasters, war, health, pandemic, political, religious, discrimination, death, foreign events and more, including your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The four categories included in the article are as follow:
- Starter Questions for Historical Events. Find 58 questions and prompts.
- Natural Disasters. Find 84 questions and prompts.
- Discrimination and Issues of Race. Find 85 questions and prompts.
- Foreign Events. Find 37 questions and prompts.
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23. Military Soldier
In the article, 287 Questions to Ask When Writing A Military Soldier Narrative, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life. These questions are for an individual who served in the military at any time or place. The questions cover the branch of service, training, activities, memories, injuries, associations with people who stayed home (e.g., spouse, children, friends, family) coming home, life after military service/War, perceptions, memorabilia, events, The two categories included in the article are as follow:
- Military Soldier Narratives. Find 211 writing prompts and questions to ask about a person who joined the military.
- Military Non-Soldier Narratives. Find 76 writing prompts and questions to ask about a person who stayed home and did not join the military service
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24. Gulf War Soldier
In the article, 296 Questions to Ask When Writing A Gulf War Soldier Narrative, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover the branch of service, training, activities, memories, injuries, associations with people who stayed home (e.g., spouse, children, friends, family) coming home, life after military service/War, perceptions, memorabilia, events, The two categories included in the article are as follow:
- Gulf War Soldier Narratives (1990-1991). Find 214 writing prompts and questions to ask about a person who joined the military during the Gulf War.
- Gulf War Non-Soldier Narratives (1990-1991). Find 82 writing prompts and questions to ask about a person who stayed home and did not join the military service during the Gulf War.
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25. Vietnam War Soldier (1959-1975)
In the article, 298 Questions to Ask When Writing A Vietnam War Soldier Narrative, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover the branch of service, training, activities, memories, injuries, associations with people who stayed home (e.g., spouse, children, friends, family) coming home, life after military service/War, perceptions, memorabilia, events, The two categories included in the article are as follow:
- Vietnam War Soldier Narratives (1959-1975). Find 214 writing prompts and questions to ask about a person who joined the military during the Vietnam War.
- Vietnam War Non-Soldier Narratives (1959-1975). Find 84 writing prompts and questions to ask about a person who stayed home and did not join the military service during the Vietnam War.
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26. Korean War Soldier (1950-1953)
In the article, 293 Questions to Ask When Writing A Korean War Soldier Narrative, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover the branch of service, training, activities, memories, injuries, associations with people who stayed home (e.g., spouse, children, friends, family) coming home, life after military service/War, perceptions, memorabilia, events, The two categories included in the article are as follow:
- Korean War Soldier Narratives (1950-1953). Find 212 writing prompts and questions to ask about a person who joined the military during the Korean War.
- Korean War Non-Soldier Narratives (1950-1953). Find 81 writing prompts and questions to ask about a person who stayed home and did not join the military service during the Korean War.
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27. WWII Soldier (1939-1945)
In the article, 342 Questions to Ask When Writing A WWII Soldier Narrative, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover the branch of service, training, activities, memories, injuries, associations with people who stayed home (e.g., spouse, children, friends, family) coming home, life after military service/War, perceptions, memorabilia, events, The two categories included in the article are as follow:
- WWII Soldier Narrative (1939-1945). Find 222 writing prompts and questions to ask about a person who joined the military during WWII.
- WWII for Non-Soldier Narrative (1939-1945). Find 120 writing prompts and questions to ask about a person who stayed home and did not join the military service during WWII.
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28. WWI Soldier
In the article, 268 Questions to Ask When Writing A WWI Soldier Narrative, the interview and writing prompts and questions about life cover the branch of service, training, activities, memories, injuries, associations with people who stayed home (e.g., spouse, children, friends, family) coming home, life after military service/War, perceptions, memorabilia, events, The two categories included in the article are as follow:
- WWI Soldier Narrative (1914-1918). Find 174 writing prompts and questions to ask about a person who joined the military during WWI.
- WWI for Non-Soldier Narrative (1914-1918). Find 94 writing prompts and questions to ask about a person who stayed home and did not join the military service during WWI.
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